Jeff Yalden Electrifies Cambridge, MN
On Wednesday, March 22, Jeff Yalden brought his motivational and mental health expertise to Anoka Ramsey Community College in Cambridge, MN, where he spent a full day with the psychology club and the counseling department.
Anoka Ramsey was a top-ten finalist for the 2017 Aspen Prize for Community College Excellence through the Aspen Institute, which is a nonpartisan organization dedicated to educational and policy studies.
After breakfast, Yalden spoke with college staff about a message board out in the hallway which had been seen a spike in negative feedback about emotions.
“The board usually inspires kids to come check it out, and they would post questions on it, but the school was becoming concerned about their mental health and mental awareness – so they decided to take action and brought me in,” he said.
The first step was mindfulness training, which began with an exercise to chart anxiety levels on a scale from one to ten, with ten being the highest.
“For us to be healthy, I think we should be operating between two and four,” he said, adding that celebrating little victories and small accomplishments is a good way step back and provide a needed mental break.
He spent some time teaching a basic meditation practice of focusing only on breath – the inhale and the exhale – for two minutes.
“This slows down your brain – slows the process down,” he said. “We are concerned with how many likes we have on Instagram or who is following us on Snapchat. I think the best thing for you guys is to work hard at finding out who you are – and who you are not.”
He went on to talk about his battles with mental health and depression and then shifted to mental health awareness and suicide prevention – how to look out for your friends and not being afraid to say something.
“Somebody that isn’t mentally healthy is not thinking in the right frame of mind,” he said.
Yalden stressed the importance of getting back “in purpose” after a setback or crisis.
“When there is something not right in my life, I go right to the mirror. Take responsibility and be your best advocate.”
But sometimes the first and best thing a person can do is to ask for help.
“Sometimes the down periods last longer than usual. This is usually the result of chemicals in the brain called neurotransmitters being out-of-balance.”
Two contributing factors to suicide can be dysthymia [a persistent mild depression] and adjustment disorder [usually following a stressful life event like a death of a loved one, moving, divorce, changing schools].
“If you have any of these for more than two weeks, go talk to somebody,” he said.
One student told him, “My tomorrow will be better, and I will not feel down about it. I don’t let myself down because I love myself.”
Impressed, Yalden built on that:
“You are doing the little things every day to make tomorrow better than today – and you are making today better than yesterday.”
But this requires consistency.
“That’s an incredible discipline that you have to do every day. The problem is, you can’t just do it once in a while. You do it every single day and your whole life will change,” he said.
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